Thursday, October 28, 2010

What is Halloween really about...


 (I found this write up and thought it was interesting)


Have you ever asked yourself, "Who in the world ever thought of the idea of walking around in weird costumes, trick or treating, and/or putting a carved-out pumpkin in your window?"
You will agree with me that Halloween is really one of the strangest days of the year, is it not? Perhaps you wonder how the celebration of such a day ever got started. In this pamphlet I would like to answer this question for you!
Where and when did Halloween customs originate?
The many customs we have today in relation to Halloween have their origins in the religious practices of the Romans and the Druids, therefore dating back many centuries. The Romans worshiped various gods and on October 31, a special feast was held in honor of Pomona, goddess of the fruit trees. Later, the Druids, an ancient order of Celtic priests in Britain, made this feast an even more extensive celebration by also honoring Samhain, lord of the dead. This was normally done on November 1 and it was therefore decided to conveniently honor both Pomona and Samhain on October 31 and November 1.
These Druids believed that on the night before November 1 (October 31) Samhain called together wicked souls or spirits which had been condemned to live in the bodies of animals during the year which had just transpired. Since they were afraid of these spirits, they chose October 31 as a day to sacrifice to their gods, hoping they would protect them. They really believed that on this day they were surrounded by strange spirits, ghosts, witches, fairies, and elves, who came out to hurt them. In addition to this, they also believed that cats were holy animals, as they considered them to represent people who lived formerly, and as punishment for evil deeds were reincarnated as a cat. All this explains why witches, ghosts, and cats are a part of Halloween today.
The custom of trick-or-treating and the use of "jack-o'-lanterns" comes from Ireland. Hundreds of years ago, Irish farmers went from house to house, begging for food, in the name of their ancient gods, to be used at the village Halloween celebration. They would promise good luck to those who gave them good, and made threats to those who refused to give. They simply told the people, "You treat me, or else I will trick you!"
The apparently harmless lightened pumpkin face or "jack-o'-lantern" actually is an old Irish symbol of damned soul. A man named Jack was supposed to be able unable to enter heaven due to his miserliness, and unable to enter hell because he had played practice jokes on the devil. As a result, he was condemned to wander over the earth with his lantern until judgment day (i.e., the end of the world). The Irish were so afraid that they would receive an identical plight, that they began to hollow out pumpkins and place lighted candles inside to scare away evil spirits from their home.
When did the modern Halloween celebration begin?
During the Middle Ages (about 600 years ago), the Roman Catholic Church at that time, decided to make the change-over from pagan religion to Christianity a bit easier, and therefore allowed the new converts to maintain some of their pagan feasts. It was agreed, however, that from now on they would be celebrated as "Christian" feats. So instead of praying to thwir heathen gods, they would now pray to, and remember the deaths of saints. For this reason the church decided to call November 1 the "Day of All Saints," and the mass to be celebrated on that day "Alhallowmass." In consequence of this, the evening prior to this day was named, "All Hallowed Evening" which subsequently was abbreviated as "Halloween." In spite of this effort to make October 31 a "holy evening," all the old customs continued to be practiced, and made this evening anything BUT a holy evening!
Halloween today.
You would have to agree with me that also today Halloween is most definently not a holy evening!! This annual event is far from the harmless, innocent tradition it is promoted to be. Many dread this "holy" evening as they think what could happen to them, their property, and/or their children! Consistent with its historical roots, this evening is charecterized by fear, and frequently arouses dormant fears in many. The fear generated by this event is symbolic of the fear which plagues so many in our moden, morally bankrupt world. It is a gripping fear for an unknown and very threatening future, a fear caused by a gnawing inner emptiness.
An alternative for October 31.
For many in this land, this day stands for the very opposite of fear!! On this day in 1517, a German monk and professor of theology, Dr. Martin Luther, courageously published the simple, straightforward truth of the Bible. God's Word, which he has rediscovered after a long and intense spiritual struggle. God used the truth of his own Word to give Luther the inner peace he had so desperately longed for. The Bible pointed him the way to God Himself, and when he found God through Jesus Christ, he found this peace which passes all understanding! He himself stated that it was as if he entered Paradise itself.
As a result of his courageous act on October 31, 1517, the Bible came into the hands of the common people again, and many, who as he, were deeply troubled by sin and it’s consequences, found peace with God as well!
It was God himself, Who used Martin Luther to bring His message of deliverance into the hands and hearts of sinners, in order to bring them back to Himself, and give then TRUE peace!! It is therefore with deep gratitude to God that we wish commemorate October 31, as it reminds us of God's gracious and mighty deeds nearly five centuries ago.
It is the Word of God, and its precious truth, rediscover by Martin Luther, which still gives true peace to many today. In the Bible ALONE will you find the ONLY answer to the deep yearning of your heart. ONLY when God becomes your God through Jesus Christ, you will find rest at last and you will answer to the true purpose of human existence, namely, to honor, serve, and enjoy our Creator!!
Is the God of heaven and earth YOUR God? If not, seek Him TODAY, while He still may be found!!
God, manifested in Jesus Christ, invited you Himself in His Word. Turn to the gospel of Matthew and read chapter 11:28,
"Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden and i will give you rest!"
Those who insist on seeking inner peace without being reconciled to God through Jesus Christ, will have to endure eternal misery without God. God does not desire the eternal misery of man and therefore He also extends this invitation in Ezekial 33:11,
"As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the deaths of the wicked (i.e. Sinner) but that the wicked turn from his way and live! Turn ye, turn ye from your evil ways: for why will ye die?"

Monday, October 25, 2010

Monday request...

So the hubby is on vacation all week and I have to work! I would love to be able to go somewhere just the two of us and chillax! Take naps, go for bike rides, chill in the hot tub, take naps, go out to a nice sit down dinner without getting up to go to the bathroom a hundred times, wiping mouths, wiping shirts, making Eve eat her dinner (yes Eve not Jasy), read, take long showers without being interrupted and intruded on, take naps, get massages. Wouldn't that be wonderful? But...it's not going to happen, not right now anyway. I have to work, Eve has school and then their other activities and Jason has school. He wasn't thrilled about the "honey do list" that I left for him. It has built up because he hasn't had time to get to anything with school/work. I took it easy on him though, honest! It's the stuff that I can't do that needed to be done.

Please remember Eve everyday this week in your prayers please. She has her first meet of the season this Saturday. This is the first time competing for her new gym. She is nervous but so excited! Remember God led us to another gym in the spring and He is really working there. I feel like God is trying to use Eve's gymnastics for His glory. I just can't put my fingers on it though. I do know that He is her strength, guide, and her sound mind. In church yesterday she wrote down some Bible verses and I found them in my purse last night. On the note said "please put these in my gym bag mom for my meet". It was out of Proverbs, "I can do all things through Christ which strengtheneth me". Some more verses that I ponder right now are ...
 I have taught thee in the way of wisdom; I have led thee in right paths.When thou goest, thy steps shall not be straitened; and when thou runnest, thou shalt not stumble.




Remember a special God filled lady, Agnes Duncan. She is not doing well at all. We went and visited her last night and I can tell that she is holding on for her families sake. Pray for her strength to hand things to God. I know she has done her part here on earth and now she has to let God handle the rest. Pray for her family. Her kids, grand kids and her Dear sweet husband.

Remember a man named Paul Beck. He found out that he has cancer and he needs God right now.

I hope everyone has a wonderful week and may God bless us all with the mind, strength, wisdom and opporturnity to do the best we can and do His will.

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

THE U IN JESUS ...

Before U were thought of or time had begun,

God stuck U in the name of His Son.



And each time U pray, you'll see it's true,

You can't spell out JesUs and not include U.



You're a pretty big part of His wonderful name,

For U, He was born; that's why He came.



And His great love for U is the reason He died.

It even takes U to spell crUcified.



Isn't it thrilling and splendidly grand

He rose from the dead, with U in His plan?



The stones split away, the gold trUmpet blew,

and this word resUrrection is spelled with a U.



When JesUs left earth at His upward ascension,

He felt there was one thing He just had to mention.



'Go into the world and tell them it's true

That I love them all - Just like I love U..'



So many great people are spelled with a U,

Don't they have a right to know JesUs too?



It all depends now on what U will do,

He'd like them to know,

But it all starts with U.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

It's all about me on my Birthday...

So today is my Birthday. That's right...I turn 21! Yay!!! Even my own kids didn't believe that one! Oh well...at least I try. I have had such a wonderful day so far! I woke up not feeling too hot this morning. Tired, weak, platelets running low. I got ready slowly this morning, went in the kitchen to make breakfast and soon after started feeling better!  Eve woke up and walked in the kitchen and gave me a great big hug and told me "Happy Birthday". I dropped Jasy off this morning and my mom had made me cookies and had them wrapped up for me to take to to work. She always makes me coffee in the morning so she had it, my cookies and my present all laid out on the counter beside the coffee maker. I thought that was so sweet. I went to work and soon after a teacher walked in with a gift for me. She made me the cutest handmade apron!  She makes the cutest things! Her and another teacher went into business last year and their just AWESOME!! (http://www.littlewhimsies.wordpress.com/) I about cried when she gave me her gift. She is such a kind person and you can tell she has a heart for God. (She also brought me muffins and food always makes a way to my heart!) Then another friend came in and brought me a notepad set-another sweet, sweet person. My second class of the day came in and sang me Happy Birthday in the cutest little song!!! About made me cry! I checked my email soon after and saw how I was getting post, after post of Birthday wishes on Face book. That meant so much to me! Then...a teacher comes in bringing me the most beautiful flowers!! On the card read, "Happy Birthday, I love you, Jason". What a sweet man I am fortunate to have. He also called work and left me a voicemail singing "Happy Birthday" to me. It was so funny! I only worked until lunch today then I went home and put on some pj's and TOOK A NAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Not a long one, but enough to energize me and make feel so much better!!!  It has just been an amazing day so far! I am so thankful for my life! Wonderful family, friends and the best Savior/friend that I could have. Simple things in life mean so much to me. In fact about so many know so little about me. So for my Birthday, I am going to fill you in on the "little crazy facts of me". Just some of them because I still need some friends.
  • I am a GERM FREAK!!!  That's right, I drive my family crazy and I worry about things that you can't actually see. I take my own sheets, comforter, and pillow on vacation, I Lysol everything in sight, I wash my hands so much that their going to look 90 in about another year.
  • I hate FROGS with a passion!!! I am so scared to death of them that I might run you over to get away from them.
  • My favorite color is purple. Just love it so much!
  • I will NOT lay my head down on my pillow if I haven't showered. Even if I take a nap, I cover my pillow with a clean blanket so it doesn't get soiled.
  • I worry about crazy, little things all the time. I worry about people (friends/family) and try and figure them out until I drive my self insane. I pick at the skin around my thumbs when I am worrying and make my fingers bleed. (this drives Jason crazy) 
  • I go by schedules. I LIVE by schedules. My cell phone calendar beeps a hundred times a day reminding me to ; pay the house, cook for church, leave house to take Eve to gymnastics, type Jason's homework, send card to friend, call friend, pick up groceries, remind me of what groceries to pick up, etc, etc, etc. (this drives Jason crazy too)
  • This leads to this I AM SO FORGETFUL!!!! Especially when I am tired. I couldn't tell you my birthday probably.
  • I love clean sheets. Nothing like crawling in a clean bed, with a clean body, with a clean face, and go to sleep. I love to read my Bible then. When it's quiet in the house and I am comfy.
  • I LOVE  watching gymnastics! I always have. I just don't like watching my own daughter compete. Practice, yes, but compete, no!!! Tears my nerves up and I think I am going to hurl!! I sit and pray over and over the whole time, and my hands and legs are shaking so bad that I try and make it not noticeable to the people around me.
  • I went to Cosmetology school after High school. I did, I almost graduated, then I changed my mind. I didn't want to mess with strangers hair anymore bc I am a germ freak!
  • I think I have ADD. I really need to go to the doctor and get on medication.
  • I have a low platelet disorder that makes me really weak, tired a lot of times. I ran a 5k the other week when I had really low platelets and I about passed out. I kept going though bc I am competitive and I don't like to be last.
  • That leads me to I am a perfectionist. I love to plan everything out in my head. Then I drive myself crazy adding, changing, and planning until it's almost perfect to me. When the girls have birthday parties, I have planned them for months ahead. I love decorating but I don't know when to stop and say it's good enough. (this drives Jason crazy)
  • I hate Chiwawas. Those dogs are so annoying to me. I don't know why. (Don't tell my sister that)
  • I am scared of the Ocean. I will get in enough to cover my knees then I get out. I am afraid of being swept away by the current.
  • I love Biggest Loser, American Idol, Amazing Race, but I never watch tv anymore. I don't have time bc it's not on my schedule anymore. I record them and watch them when I get a chance. (never)
  • I have been coloring my hair since 9th grade. I think it's an ash blonde in winter and golden blonde in summer but I really couldn't tell you.
  • I LOVE to dance!! Back in the day I could tear up a dance floor. Now Eve says I am embarrassing and that I need to stop. NEVER!!!
  • I love to laugh. Sometimes I am just plain crazy! People tell me all the time that I'm crazy so I finally beilieve them.
  • I burp all the time. I do. Even when Jason and I were dating, I would just let them rip. He married me so he must not mind too much. It hurts to hold them in. I will around people that don't know me that well but when you get to know me...be prepared!
  • I yell when I sneeze. It's like I am being murdered. (It drives Jason crazy) It hurts if I don't yell. I hold it in when I can't  yell and it about kills me.

Okay, that's enough for now. Don't you feel more normal now?

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

How is it...

Don't you just love the fall in the air? Aww....my favorite season is finally here! With it comes the changing of the leaves, and crisp Autumn weather. Nature is so beautiful and we really are so blessed to live here in the South! It's not too awful hot (well this past summer was record breaking) and it's not too cold-just right if you ask me.

I have had a lot on my mind lately, in fact you could say that I have had too much to say and didn't know where to start. School is going well for Eve and for Jason. Lots of work for both. Eve is doing remarkably well balancing her after school activities and keeping her grades up. I am proud of her determination and drive there. Jason is trying so hard to get all his work done, find time for us and still get a little rest. Bless his heart. This morning his alarm clock went off at 4am and when his feet hit the floor, I heard mumbles and grumbles of a tired man. I felt sorry for him. I think he went to bed early last night though-midnight. Please pray for him and his guidance, and the strength that he needs. Jasy is doing well too. She started taking ballet last week (she has been begging for awhile). She looked so cute in her little leotard and tights-I could have squeezed her little cheeks off! Her Nannie and Papa took her on a field trip last week. She got to go to the Apple Orchard and pick apples. Then they went to NC and picked up a new toy for Papa. A new coon dog that she named "Speck". She's been growing flowers too that she planted there and I think she has more "farming knowledge" than any of us! Now me...I am trying hard to find time for myself. I haven't found it yet but when I do I am going to be excited. I want to go running so I will have the energy that I need to full fill my list everyday, shop a little, get my toenails done, maybe just sit in a tub and soak for about an hour until I get all pruny. However, I am enjoying being a mom, and a wife and thanking God that He gave me the life I have!



I have been thinking a lot lately about people in general. I can't figure them out. I have really tried to and I just get even more confused and upset.  Here are a few thoughts that have been running in my mind;
  • How is it that you could have everything right in front of you and you not know it?
  •  How is it that you claim to be a christian but never go to church or witness to your own family? He gave His life for us and yet so many won't even fight for Him?
  • How is that deep down you know that you should be serving God and doing the plan He has laid out for you, but you put Him last?
  • How is that we are so quick to judge others but  are so easy on ourselves and our ways?
  • How can you have such wonderful talent and waste it away? Don't they know that God handpicked them to have it and He can take it anytime?
  •  How is it that you have friends that love you and ache for your burdens but you won't pick up the phone to call them and say "I'm okay"?
  •  How is it that this world is so full of sin and perverse ways that so many of us don't even get upset anymore when we see it everywhere we go?
  • How is it that people think that their okay if they made a profession years ago but never dart the door of a church or even have a desire to serve Him? How is that those same people will send their kids to Vacation Bible school once a year but not ever think about it any other time. -Do they not care that their kids could die and go to hell?
  • How is it that someone, that doesn't know God, lives a sinful life, can tell someone that their "praying for them" when they don't even pray period?-Why is it a "figure of speech" and a "kind thing " to say to someone who is going through a difficult time instead of what it needs to be? "I will pray for you"-when their not even a child of God-Don't they know that it won't be heard?

I don't understand the ways of people and the thoughts that cross their mind. I want to just tell them sometimes to wake up and get with it, but I know that if I do then I will ruin the witness that I might be for them by just not saying anything. Please pray for me that I will stop trying to figure out people and just leave it up to God. All I can do as a friend is PRAY for them and plead their case before God. Lift Up !! . . your Prayers. 'Do not worry about anything; instead PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING.' Philippians 4:6